Hey guys. I’m back. Sorry about my lack of post last week- I was on a family holiday with no access to internet. To be honest, it was nice to get aware and collect my thoughts regarding my life and what has happened recently. Its amazing what a difference some space can make.
I have decided that things with the guy I had been speaking to are calming down as he has moved away to, effectively, a whole new country. At first this made me quite sad because it was nice to have someone to pop to the cinema with, someone to talk to! However, dwelling on such things won’t change them. Therefore I am looking on the positive and trying to meet other people. Back to good old online dating hey. But this time round, a more relaxed attitude will be taken because I am in a place where I am happy on my own. I have my university work, I have family, and I have friends. So a man will not complete my life- he will only enhance it. A perk, as it were.
So yes, just a quick update this week. But I want everyone to remember that your life is not made by a relationship. Yes they are nice, and yes it does sometimes feel like the single life is a bit rubbish. But hey, you are a whole person. You should be happy on your own before you can be happy with someone else. No one else is going to complete you as a person. So live life happy and enjoy the single life. I mean, think about it, one day when you are married or in a serious relationship, you won’t be able to do anything on your own anymore. So enjoy it while it lasts.
See ee you all next week where I will hopefully be talking about long term relationships/marriages, what makes them work, and what singles can learn from such relationships.
Love, C. X
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